Last week I did a show about learning how to UNPLUG. That choice does not go without consequence. Every week I am answering ,"Dear Auntie" questions. Each action in the universe has a reaction. You may actually lose that person totally or you enter a new space with someone new. When you unplug you have to be ready for the consequences. You have to be ready for the fact that the other person may not actually give a damn. If they don't care you need to be ready to move forward in what is best and healthy for YOU.